We often hear: just be yourself!
And if we pass the cynical 'new age shit' approach....we go further, inner...but we often get the wrong idea about this in this process and put ourselves in conflict with ourselves- to change or to just express whateva' comes?
To be yourself doesn't mean to do what your ego tells you to do.
It means to first know what makes your heart at home, assume this in common sense, even if contrary to your world rules and act accordingly, in total trust and freedom.
hard work :)